5 Secrets to Blissful Relationship
Have you ever seen a couple who
had been together for 30 or 40 years and wondered what
their secret was? Once you learn these five
secrets of blissful relationships and put them into
practice, you'll be amazed at just how easy it can be
to have a great relationship...
Have you ever seen a couple who
had been together for 30 or 40 years and wondered what
their secret was? Once you learn these five
secrets of blissful relationships and put them into
practice, you'll be amazed at just how easy it can be
to have a great relationship...
1. Clear Expectations
Clear expectations are the foundation of trust,
compassion and understanding. You hear a lot of talk
about trust these days, but finding a person you can
trust to be in a close relationship with you is
difficult. Contrary to common belief, this honesty is
much less the cause of mistrust than ambiguous and unclear
expectations.
compassion and understanding. You hear a lot of talk
about trust these days, but finding a person you can
trust to be in a close relationship with you is
difficult. Contrary to common belief, this honesty is
much less the cause of mistrust than ambiguous and unclear
expectations.
If you and your partner are unclear about what the
expectations of the relationship are (for both sides),
you're left with only assumptions... and assumptions
almost always lead to disappointments, which are
perceived as violations of trust.
expectations of the relationship are (for both sides),
you're left with only assumptions... and assumptions
almost always lead to disappointments, which are
perceived as violations of trust.
2. Great Sex
Okay maybe people don't talk about
this one much but the human body is biologically wired
for sexual bliss... and that' not going to change. While
great sex isn't a principle which you can build an
entire relationship on, it does add a delightful
dimension to your relationship that few couples ever
get to find.
this one much but the human body is biologically wired
for sexual bliss... and that' not going to change. While
great sex isn't a principle which you can build an
entire relationship on, it does add a delightful
dimension to your relationship that few couples ever
get to find.
And so what's the secret to having a great sex life?
First and foremost is open and honest communication
about what each person wants. Biologically, sex works
out pretty well and without a lot of extra effort...just
because of the way our bodies are wired. But making it
great requires clear communication and reciprocity.
First and foremost is open and honest communication
about what each person wants. Biologically, sex works
out pretty well and without a lot of extra effort...just
because of the way our bodies are wired. But making it
great requires clear communication and reciprocity.
And speaking of reciprocity...
3. Reciprocity
There is no such thing as something for nothing, and
this will apply to pretty much every area of life: your
financial life, your relationships, your health, your
career and your emotional well-being. If one partner is
giving too much and the other is taking too much, the
relationship is always on its way downhill. But if you
focus on meeting your partner's needs according to their
expectations (instead of your own), they'll be much
more likely to reciprocate.
this will apply to pretty much every area of life: your
financial life, your relationships, your health, your
career and your emotional well-being. If one partner is
giving too much and the other is taking too much, the
relationship is always on its way downhill. But if you
focus on meeting your partner's needs according to their
expectations (instead of your own), they'll be much
more likely to reciprocate.
Again, this is one of the reasons why clear
expectations are so important. Many people try to
practice reciprocity, but instead of giving their
partner what they need, they give based
on what they ASSUME that they need. So reciprocity
requires clear expectations in order to make a
relationship blissful.
expectations are so important. Many people try to
practice reciprocity, but instead of giving their
partner what they need, they give based
on what they ASSUME that they need. So reciprocity
requires clear expectations in order to make a
relationship blissful.
4. Playfulness
Life is too short to be in a relationship where you
can't have fun and be a little playful with your partner.
One of the greatest joys in adult experiences can be acting
a little childlike, and you need someone in your life
who will share this experience with you. Of course,
there are many different types of senses of humor, it's
important to find someone who thinks the way that you
do and who finds humor in the same things.
can't have fun and be a little playful with your partner.
One of the greatest joys in adult experiences can be acting
a little childlike, and you need someone in your life
who will share this experience with you. Of course,
there are many different types of senses of humor, it's
important to find someone who thinks the way that you
do and who finds humor in the same things.
5. Perpetual Courtship
Too many couples start off on a really great note by
working hard to please each other during the courting
stage of the relationship, only to slack off once the
"new" wears off. Make a commitment to court your partner
every day of your relationship, even if you've been
together for decades. This will inspire reciprocity
and, together with the above four principles, will
help you to build a blissful relationship.
working hard to please each other during the courting
stage of the relationship, only to slack off once the
"new" wears off. Make a commitment to court your partner
every day of your relationship, even if you've been
together for decades. This will inspire reciprocity
and, together with the above four principles, will
help you to build a blissful relationship.
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